I was scrolling through Facebook earlier and saw a post in a Christian readers group. A woman was bravely sharing that she’d written a book. She mentioned she’s a lesbian and also prays—and wanted to share her story on the page.
I paused before reading the comments because I had a feeling I knew what they’d say. Unfortunately, I was right.
The comments were harsh. Judgmental. Full of accusations.
There was no love, no kindness, no compassion.
It broke my heart. If I weren’t already a Christian, reading those comments would make me want nothing to do with faith. How often do the people called to love the most end up being the ones who hurt others?
To that woman: Thank you for your courage.
Here’s what I want you to know: You may identify as a lesbian, but first and foremost, you are a child of God.
Every one of us has a story, a journey, and struggles we face. But Jesus came to bridge the gap between us and God, to invite us all into His love—no exceptions.
He doesn’t ask us to be perfect or have it all together. He doesn’t love us based on labels or the world’s definitions. His love is unconditional, freely given, and unshakable.
Maybe you feel like there are things keeping you from fully experiencing that love—past hurts, things you’ve been told, or beliefs you’ve held onto. But none of those things can separate you from Him.
You are loved right now, exactly as you are. Not for who you could be or who others think you should be. He sees you, He knows you, and He loves you—completely.
Jesus is standing with His arms wide open, inviting us to step into His grace. It’s not about fixing yourself first or trying to earn His love. It’s about accepting the gift He’s already given.
So to anyone reading this who feels like they’re on the outside looking in, let me tell you this:
You are loved.
You are wanted.
You are enough.
And His arms are always open.